I’ve never thought about it, but I should visit my family in San Jose sometime. I see enough of my mom’s family, but I’ve never thought of going to see my dad’s family. Plus, I mean, my great grandpa who lives there is like, 96, so I should try to see him as much as I can now. Not many people make it past a hundred. I know he will, he’s awesome, but it’s getting awfully close now! I gotta utilize this time wisely.
Danny Silk is an amazing man. What a lot of people learn through many years of schooling and training, this man learned from his own experiences. Here’s one thing I love that he talked about in regards to relationships.
He said that if you’re single you shouldn’t waste your time searching for and seeking your soul mate. It’s a waste of time. It is best to let that person come into your life naturally. One example he gave was…well, first he said it is not a good idea to alter your plans and your life around another person. When I was in high school, I used to lie about my interests and stuff so that certain people, or boys, would like me. Even when I started dating I would say I was a certain way so that person would like me, or I would change my direction in life so that I could be with that person. Danny Silk gave a fine example of why this is not a good idea. He said, ok, there’s a man in an airport with a ticket to New York. Suddenly he sees a beautiful woman and wants to pursue her. He talks to her and finds out she’s going to China, so he changes his ticket to China so that he can go with her. But when he gets to China, he realizes he never wanted to be in China. He wanted to go to New York. And now he’s stuck in a place he doesn’t want to be with a woman he doesn’t really care for.
It’s best to…determine our individual direction in life before pursuing an intimate relationship with another person. It’s best to always stick to our own personal goals and passions, and do exactly what we want, and not let other people influence those things. I’ve made that mistake already a few times and now I’m finally trying to do things for myself. :)
I’ve had this cracking occurring for the past year in my sternum. It feels like when you need to put your back or knuckles or whatever. It’ll hurt until I crack it. But it’s in my chest. Today my chest has been hurting that way but I haven’t been able to crack it for some reason. Anyway, I asked my sister to help me crack it but she was like, uh that’s not normal I don’t think, so then I went on Google and a lot of people deal with it and don’t know what it is and have been told it’s not normal, so then I went on Yahoo Answers, which was a mistake, because someone was telling me I should go to the hospital right away but I think they’re just trying to scare me. Haha.